[ sansa shook her head. she'd been a lady in her father's house and jon had been the bastard. society had separated them after a certain age, and he'd never quite learned how to talk to her as he ought to. she'd never quite learned how to talk to him as she needed to. and now at the wall-- ]

Mayhaps you're right. But we are speaking better and more than we ever did before. I suspect it will still take time. These things cannot be rushed...?