It can take some adjusting to, I know. I'm still not really sure my husband ever actually really got used to it. He was a farm boy before I met him.

[Given the context and what Snow knows of Hermione in general, that much is obvious what she refers to by 'all of this'. Obviously she has managed to work her way up to it. Snow has taken a couple of quests herself but has mostly thus far since been content to assist Emma in hers for now if necessary.]

I see. That's wonderful that you've found and made a family here. It doesn't replace what we may have had back home, but even so. They say friends are the family we choose. Or something like that.