[ she doesn't understand what he means by jeans and musical theatre either so she's just... going to.... ignore it....... and lift her head and roll her eyes ]

At least that's more self-awareness than I suppose most people could ask for. [ including herself. whoops, still embarrassing. katsa chews on her lower lip before deciding to ask her next question. ]

If she's the love of your life, why isn't she what you're looking for in a lover? You've never planned to marry her?

[ not that katsa cares whether anyone marries anyone, but she's just downright curious, now ]